While no one has an easy time with shame, and many societies don’t really want to acknowledge it, for many men it can be especially hard. Men often don't even realize that they feel shame. They may suddenly find themselves shouting or blaming someone else, or pulling away and stonewalling, without having access to the underlying shame. They may find themselves depressed and isolated, without really knowing why.

The action tendency of shame is to freeze, hide, vanish, disappear. Men are often socialized to take action and “deal.” Shame makes this very hard to do. The solution many men find to shame is to not feel or acknowledge it—to react against it without being aware of the underlying cause of their actions.

This workshop will help you discover and address the invisible shame in many men. You will learn how to countershame them and invite them to join you rather than fight you when shame is activated in the session. We offer tools and languaging that will move men into curiosity about the shame underlying thoughts and behaviors. When we get them onboard with recognizing and accepting that they have shame, as everyone does, we can help them take steps to explore and heal.

Course Level: Beginning
There is no prerequisite for this course.


Healing Shame in Men

RECORDED WORKSHOP


Pricing and Registration

$395 course fee
Special rate for interns - $45 off

$40 additional fee for CE credits

12 CE credits available only for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs and LEPs in California – CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393
Please note that the number of CE credits for the workshop includes both video time and exercise/practice time.

For details about CE credit, click here.

This recorded workshop can be applied toward certification as a Healing Shame Practitioner.


Course Structure
The recorded Healing Shame in Men workshop consists of two video classes. You can expect to spend approximately 12 hours on this workshop.

For Those Not Seeking CE Credit or Possible Certification:
For those who do not need CE credit or an Hours of Attendance certificate and who are not in (or considering) our Practitioner Certification Program, we do strongly encourage you to write and submit papers (as described below) as a means of engaging with the course more deeply and fostering your individual learning.

Requirements for course credit (for those wanting CE credit or an Hours of Attendance Certificate or for those in the Healing Shame Certification Program):

  • For each of the two classes, write and submit a 3- to 4-page paper describing what you learned and how it affected you.

  • After you finish the course, complete and submit the course evaluation form.

  • You must complete the course and submit all materials within six months of the date of purchase. Materials received outside this time frame will not be applied toward the requirements.

For complete details about the requirements for course and CE credit, click here.

Please note: In registering for this workshop, you are agreeing to the terms of our Ethics and Scope of Practice Agreement

If you're wondering whether this is the right class for you, please contact Bret Lyon at Bret@healingshame.com, Sheila Rubin at Sheila@healingshame.com, or Elizabeth Davidge at EDhealingshame@gmail.com.


If you’re interested in registering for this recorded training, please fill out the form below and we will email you with the appropriate registration information.


The Center for Healing Shame is approved by the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists to sponsor continuing education for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs and LEPs in California – CAMFT-approved CE provider #134393. Courses meet the qualifications for 12 hours of continuing education credit for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs and LEPs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences.

The Center for Healing Shame maintains responsibility for this program/course and its content.

WORKSHOP CANCELLATION POLICY

We do not offer refunds for recorded workshops. Registrations are not transferable.

GRIEVANCE POLICY

The Center for Healing Shame seeks to ensure equitable treatment of every person and to make every attempt to resolve grievances in a fair manner.

If you have a grievance, please include your name and contact information and submit it in writing to Sheila Rubin (sheila@healingshame.com).

Grievances will receive, to the best of our ability, corrective action in order to prevent further problems.